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Looking to propose to your partner during your next romantic trip away? Nothing is more exciting than a much-deserved vacation, and a romantic overseas getaway is a great opportunity to take your relationship to the next level.  But there are a few things you’ll need to consider to ensure that your plans are a surefire success. Afterall, a proposal is a big deal and it’s something you’ll both remember for the rest of your lives.

Thankfully, we’re here to help get the ball rolling. Today, we share 7 tips to help you nail the perfect vacation proposal.

1.   Plan Your Destination Wisely

So you’ve decided that you’re going to pop the question on your vacation, but have you decided on where you’re headed to? It’s always good to pick a destination that’s of special significance to you and your partner. For example, it could be a country where you first met, had a significant moment in your relationship, or simply a travel destination that is dear to both your hearts.

It’s also important to think about what type of holiday your partner will enjoy. Are they more of a simple person, or someone who enjoys luxury holidays? These factors will all play a part in helping you choose the perfect overseas proposal destination.  No matter the destination, as long as it is meaningful to both of you, you simply cannot go wrong.

2.   Pack The Smart Way

When it comes to planning a proposal trip, packing smartly can make a significant difference in ensuring a smooth and stress-free experience. First and foremost, make a checklist of essential items you’ll need for the trip. Consider the weather conditions and activities you have in mind, and pack accordingly. If you’re going to a tropical destination, don’t forget to bring lightweight clothing, swimsuits, and sunscreen. If you’re heading to a colder climate, pack warm layers and accessories like scarves and gloves. Lastly, be mindful of the weight and size restrictions imposed by airlines, especially if you’re planning to bring any special items or surprises for the proposal. For example, if you are flying with Lufthansa, make sure to familiarize yourself with the dimensions of a  Lufthansa approved carry on luggage to ensure that your belongings meet the airline’s requirements. This will prevent any last-minute surprises or additional fees at the airport.

Packing for a vacation can be challenging in itself, especially when you have the job of packing an expensive engagement ring which could very well get lost in transit if luck isn’t on your side. This is why packing smart is absolutely essential. For example, you should always pack the ring in your carry-on instead of your checked luggage.

Another thing that you can (and should) consider is taking out specific insurance cover for your ring. This will help to ensure that the cost of repairing or replacing your ring if it is lost, damaged, or stolen on your travels is covered, thus adding another layer of security to your proposal plans. Honestly, you can never be too cautious or prepared when it comes to an expensive engagement ring!

Top Tip: Alternatively, you may consider using a placeholder instead of your actual engagement ring. We’ve heard of lots of proposals that have succeeded with either method — do whatever you feel most comfortable with.

3.   Choose A Setting That’s Personal

Equally as important as the destination you choose for your overseas proposal is the setting that it actually happens in. Again, the ideal setting for your proposal will likely be unique to you, so it’s a good idea to choose a setting that is personal and holds some significance in your relationship. For starters, outline some things that you enjoy doing as a couple and find a way to incorporate these shared interests into your proposal.

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"Nothing is more exciting than a much-deserved vacation, and a romantic overseas getaway is a great opportunity to take your relationship to the next level."

Some simple examples of ideal settings for a marriage proposal include (but are not limited to):

  • A romantic dinner;
  • A spectacular hot air balloon ride;
  • A private cruise;
  • A beach proposal; and
  • Concerts or other public events.

4.   Practise Your Speech In Advance

You know what they say — practice makes perfect, so be sure to practise your proposal speech as early as possible, and as many times as possible. The last thing you want is to fumble at the last minute, and an ample amount of practice will help you ensure the perfect proposal that you can look back on fondly. If your current deliverance isn’t up to scratch, consider trying a few different styles or ideas to see what works best for you. By going in with a plan (as opposed to ‘winging it’’) you can ensure that you don’t forget to say something meaningful on one of the most important days of your life!

5.   Propose Sooner Rather Than Later

One of the most common questions we get asked is whether someone should propose at the beginning or the end of their vacation. While this is entirely up to your personal preference, the general rule is that you should propose sooner rather than later. At the end of the day, proposing to your partner (even if it’s a guaranteed yes) is a nerve-wracking experience. You’ll be full of jitters and probably on edge, so the last thing you want is to spend your entire vacation feeling nervous instead of enjoying the precious moments with your loved one. By proposing early in the tip, you’ll also be able to treat the rest of your time away like a bit of a pre-honeymoon!

6.   Book A Photographer

The truth is that your marriage proposal is a moment you and your significant other will want to revisit forever, so high-quality photographs of your special moment are a must! This can be challenging when you are planning to propose overseas and don’t have any friends or family members to play photographer for the day, but it certainly is by no means impossible. In fact, there are numerous ways and resources that you can use to hire a photographer while travelling, including specialist directories and websites such as Local Grapher. So, be sure to   connect with a photographer well ahead of time and have them waiting in the wings to capture your once-in-a-lifetime moment. We promise you won’t regret it!

7.   Don’t Let The Cat Out Of The Bag

Finally, the last thing you’d want to do after all the effort and planning you put into your amazing overseas vacation proposal is to let the cat out of the bag. We suggest letting as few people in on the surprise as possible. By ensuring that only your dearest and most trusted friends and family are aware of your plans, you greatly reduce the likelihood of someone accidentally blurting your sweet surprise out to your significant other. So be sure to find out who needs to know what ahead of time, and keep everyone on a need-to-know basis.

Top Tip: Aside from keeping things hush hush, you’ll also want to avoid small yet significant things such as leaving your engagement ring around. Also, as difficult as it may be, try to contain your excitement to the best of your ability — act normal and try not to let on by doing anything out of the norm. Afterall, the success of your proposal depends on how well you orchestrate it!

And there you have it — 7 expert tips that are guaranteed to help you plan the perfect vacation proposal (and gain you a ton of brownie points while you’re at it). By following these tips and suggestions, you are guaranteed to nail the proposal and create the most memorable vacation you can imagine. All the best, good luck, and congratulations to the world’s newest fiancés!

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